Beyond the Boon-Giver: When You Stop Using God and Start Knowing Him Most of us come to God with a list. A job. A marriage. Health for a sick parent. Victory over an enemy. Protection from misfortune. This is not wrong in itself — it is deeply human. But if we are honest, we must ask: is this relationship with God, or is it a transaction with a very powerful supplier? We want God on our side. We fast, pray, and perform rituals — not always out of love or understanding, but out of want. And somewhere in that wanting, we quietly assume that God belongs to us. That our prayers carry more weight than another person's prayers. That God will punish those we dislike and reward those we approve of. But here is the uncomfortable question the Hindu tradition has always raised: Why would God take your side? The person you call your enemy is also praying. Also fasting. Also weeping before the same deity. God does not belong to your narrative. What the Scriptures Actually Say The Bhagav...