Walking the Path of Brahman, Even With a Family - Why Brahmacharya Is Not Just Celibacy or Just Student Life Today, if you ask ten people what Brahmacharya is, nine will say "no sex" and one will say "the student stage of life". Some spiritual gurus even sell it like a product, with a monthly package and a discount for early registration. But the word itself tells a different story. Brahmacharya comes from Brahman and charya, which means conduct. So it is simply conduct along the path of Brahman. Nothing in the word says "stay away from your wife" or "do not look at anybody". Of course, celibacy is one part of it, specially for a sannyasi or a person who has taken a vow. But to reduce the whole subject to this one thing is like saying cooking means only boiling water. What the Scriptures Say The Bhagavad Gita gives a very practical view. In Chapter 6, Verse 17, Bhagavan Krishna says that yoga becomes the destroyer of sorrow for one who is m...