The rituals and rites on Mahalaya day are performed early morning on riverbanks or on seashore. The main offering made on Mahalaya Paksha to ancestors is food. It is believed that the offering made during this period will benefit all the departed souls. Charity in the form of food is also done by people.
The Ritual of Tarpan On Mahalaya
The word Tarpan itself means to satisfy or appease. Water mixed with Kush grass, sesame seeds (til), rice, milk, and white flowers is offered to the ancestors, often accompanied by the chanting of mantras. Typically, one sits facing South, holds Kush grass in hand, and offers water while reciting the mantra: ‘Om Agacchantu me pitar, grahantu jalanjalim’ (Oh my ancestors, please come and accept this offering of water). According to the scriptures, performing Tarpan in this manner brings tranquility to the soul.
Brief Idea On How To Perform Mahalaya
Tarpan — the ritual of offering to one’s ancestors. At dawn, a copper vessel is filled with raw milk, black sesame seeds, uncooked rice, white flowers, and holy Ganges water (or water from a river), and the mixture is poured into a pond, river, or an open space near the house. It is believed that this act grants peace to the departed souls and brings their blessings upon the family.
Feeding animals and birds on this day is also considered very auspicious. Even a handful of rice or a little water offered to them is said to bring great merit.
Not only Tarpan, but standing beside the poor and helpless is also deemed highly virtuous on this day. Donating food, clothes, or any essential items to those in need is believed to bring good fortune. Feeding children to their fill on Mahalaya is regarded as a noble deed that invites joy and prosperity into the home.
Many people clean their houses, decorate their entrances, and prepare vegetarian meals. In some places, priests are invited and served with devotion. Rising early, maintaining mindfulness, and spending the day with sincerity and faith are also observed practices during this time.
Mahalaya is not merely a celebration of the Goddess — it carries within it the essence of duty, charity, and devotion.
Mahalaya – Durga Puja
How did Mahalaya come to be associated with Durga Puja?
The connection between Mahalaya and Durga Puja has been formed through local customs and practices over time. Figures like Birendra Krishna Bhadra, Banikumar, and Pankaj Mallik, with their immortal creation Mahishasurmardini (the slayer of the demon Mahishasura), have played a significant role in creating this association.
The custom of drawing the eyes on the idol of the Goddess, the procession of idols from the potter's quarter, and the beginning of Durga Puja rituals at home—all of these customs were adopted on Mahalaya.
The Mahishasurmardini broadcast on All India Radio on Mahalaya morning has added mythological significance to this day for the common people. Ultimately, the phrase "Durga Puja begins seven days after Mahalaya" has ingrained the connection between Mahalaya and Durga Puja in the minds of Bengali people.

