Those girls and boys facing difficulties in marriage offer coconut to Shiva and chant a particular mantra. This ritual is more popular in certain regions in North India and is performed on Monday. How to Offer Coconut To Shiva? On Monday, visit a Shiva temple. Wear white color dress. Buy 5 coconuts with tuft. Sit in a quiet place and chant the following mantra: ॐ वरप्रदाय श्रीं नम : The mantra should be chanted 108 times keep the count on a Rudraksha Mala. After chanting and meditating, offer the coconut in the temple.