The Sairandhri's Reply to Kichaka: Draupadi's Lesson in Honour and Self-Respect During the thirteenth year of exile, the Pandavas lived incognito in the kingdom of Virata. Draupadi, disguised as a maidservant named Sairandhri, served Queen Sudeshna. It was in this court that Kichaka, the commander of Virata's army and brother of the queen, first set eyes on Draupadi. Though he held high rank and was the queen's own brother, he was by birth the son of a suta, a charioteer lineage traditionally associated with service and attendance at court rather than kingship. This detail becomes central to the episode, since Draupadi later invokes it directly. Kichaka's Proposal Overcome by desire, Kichaka approached Draupadi and attempted to win her over with flattery. He praised her beauty, promised her a life of luxury, wealth and status, and declared that he would place himself entirely at her service, even offering to become subordinate to her wishes if she accepted him....