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Spirituality Is Needed When We Are In The Middle Of Our Life Not At The End Of It

Religion and spirituality are for the old. That is what the young generally think. They think that spirituality is a post-retirement plan; something which has to be enjoyed with the gratuity, provident fund, and pension that you get after retirement. This is not true. It is not only the fault of the youth that they think in this manner.

Spirituality is something we need when we are in the middle of our life, not just at the end of it. It is what you need when you are in the heat of the moment, when you are juggling with alternatives, when you are at a loss what to do, when you want to take a road but are still standing perplexed at the crossroads. That is when you need spirituality. That is when you need to get a hold on yourself. Not on your puny self, the construct of your body and mind, but on your true self that is beyond time, space, and causation.

Imagine the endless possibilities that would open up if you were aware of this true personality of yours and when you realize that you cannot be limited by anything, not just as a figure of speech, but literally, anything. That is when your life begins. And that cannot happen without contemplation, without some soul-searching, without putting behind your body and mind — essentially everything that you presently consider to be you.

Prabuddha BharataEditorial – May 2015

A slightly different take on the topic

Hinduism, spirituality is an integral part of life, emphasizing the need for a spiritual journey throughout one's entire life rather than just at the end. This philosophy is rooted in several key teachings and concepts within Hinduism.

The Four Stages of Life (Ashramas)

Hinduism divides life into four stages, known as the ashramas. Each stage has specific duties and spiritual goals:

  1. Brahmacharya (Student Life): This is the stage of learning and developing the foundation of knowledge, discipline, and spiritual practice.
  2. Grihastha (Householder Life): In this stage, one focuses on building a family, pursuing a career, and contributing to society. It's a time of worldly engagement but also a period where spiritual practices should be integrated into daily life.
  3. Vanaprastha (Retired Life): This is a transitional stage where one gradually withdraws from the material pursuits and responsibilities of the householder stage, turning more towards spiritual pursuits.
  4. Sannyasa (Renounced Life): In the final stage, one renounces worldly attachments entirely to focus solely on attaining moksha (liberation).

Importance of Mid-Life Spirituality

The second stage, Grihastha, highlights the need for spirituality during the middle years of life. This stage is not just about material success but also about balancing worldly duties with spiritual growth. Here are key reasons why spirituality is emphasized in the middle of life in Hinduism:

  1. Balancing Material and Spiritual Pursuits: While fulfilling familial and societal responsibilities, individuals are encouraged to maintain and deepen their spiritual practices. This balance helps in preventing excessive attachment to material possessions and ambitions.

  2. Preparing for Transition: Engaging in spirituality during the middle of life prepares individuals for the transition to the Vanaprastha stage. It ensures a smoother shift from active participation in worldly duties to a more reflective and inward-focused life.

  3. Cultivating Dharma: Following one's dharma (righteous duty) in the householder stage involves adhering to ethical and moral principles. Spirituality aids in understanding and living according to dharma, ensuring that actions are aligned with higher spiritual principles.

  4. Managing Life's Challenges: Middle age often brings significant challenges such as raising children, career pressures, and health issues. Spirituality provides strength, resilience, and a sense of purpose, helping individuals navigate these challenges with equanimity.

Scriptures and Teachings

Several Hindu scriptures and teachings emphasize the importance of integrating spirituality throughout life, including the middle years:

  • Bhagavad Gita: The Gita teaches that one should perform their worldly duties with detachment and dedication to God, thereby integrating spirituality into everyday actions.
  • Upanishads: These ancient texts discuss the nature of the self and the universe, encouraging continuous self-inquiry and meditation, practices that can be maintained throughout all stages of life.
  • Yamas and Niyamas: The ethical and moral codes in Patanjali's Yoga Sutras guide individuals to live a life of discipline and virtue, forming a foundation for spiritual growth at all ages.

Practical Applications

To integrate spirituality into the middle of life, individuals can:

  • Engage in Regular Spiritual Practices: Daily meditation, prayer, and reading of scriptures.
  • Seek Guidance from Spiritual Mentors: Learning from gurus or spiritual teachers who can provide direction and support.
  • Participate in Community Worship: Involvement in community rituals and satsangs (spiritual gatherings) to reinforce spiritual values.
  • Practice Karma Yoga: Performing selfless service (seva) as a means of worship and spiritual practice.

In Hinduism, spirituality is not confined to the later stages of life but is a continuous journey that begins in youth and matures through the middle years. By embedding spirituality in the midst of life’s responsibilities and challenges, individuals can live more balanced, purposeful, and fulfilling lives, ultimately paving the way for spiritual liberation.