There is too much negative talk around – Let us do some positive talk and move ahead.
Being critical most of the time will only alienate friends,
colleagues and family.
Too much negative talk will push us into the well of no hope
and there will be no escape from it.
Always complaining about something or other becomes a habit.
It then kills all form of hope and goodness in us. We attempt to get pleasure
from bad mouthing and negative talk. We also do not realize the very same people
with whom we were having negative talk will go to another place and badmouth us.
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We all have our likes and dislikes but we cannot be adamant
about them. We need to be flexible and we need to adjust so that we can make
our life happy and of those around us.
A great deal of good things happen around us but we are not
able to realize them because we are caught in the whirlpool of negativity.
Social media, newspapers, television are a hotbed of
negative talk. We are provided daily with accidents, murder, unrest, hate and
tension. If we care for our health, we should stay away from such negative news.
They just want to create glum people who get addicted to such things. Such
people are made to believe that there is no hope. They sell misery and suspicion.
They create fear and spread hatred.
The best option to get out of negativity it is to realize
that we are being trapped in the prison of negative talk. We need to stop criticizing
and condemning. Stop bad mouthing. Stop spreading fear and hatred.
Never be stingy in praising and be the provider of hope.
People should look up to you when they are in trouble. People would not want to
take help from a person who is always into negative talk. Over time, you get characterized
as all bad and negative.
Turning negative talk into positive talk will not happen on a
day. We need to be conscious of our talks and actions. Consciously cultivate
the habit of seeing light even in the darkest hours.
Change our attitude and we will get to talk about hundreds
of positive things. Nature is so vast and wide and it has so much of hidden
gems that a single birth is not enough to explore them.
Next is to avoid engaging in pointless talk. Most of our talks
are on topics, which are not at all relevant. We need to focus on things in
which we are a participant. How we can improve things for better.
Let the world spread negativity,
we can notice the positives and be happy.
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