Perfection happens only after mistakes

Past mistakes should serve you and enlighten you. They should be used as guidelines. Quite often they are our best Gurus.

It is not just you; all people have done many things wrong in their life. There is nothing wrong in making a mistake but repeating it is a criminal offence.

Cursing yourself or blaming others for a failed relationship is not going to change anything. But you can take valuable lessons from the failed relationship and use it for bettering your next one.

Mistakes are essential for our growth. It makes us wiser. It is  not just humans even animals make mistakes before perfecting their art of survival in nature.

You can never be perfect from day one. There will be numerous mistakes and falls. There will be dejection. Perfection happens only after mistakes.

There are numerous benefits from mistakes. It is just that we might not have realized it.

Some are scared of mistakes and problems so they stay away indefinitely from situations, relationships, and project. But 24X7 they are obsessed with the relationship or project. They might not be physically participating but they are in the project mentally. So be bold and venture into it, let mistakes happen, correct them and move ahead.

Ultimately all answers are in the Bhagavad Gita. We are afraid of the end result that is why we are scared of mistakes or dejected after mistakes. Gita asks us to give our best, enjoy each moment of a project without bothering about the result. Destination is just a small spot but there are numerous wonderful things on the way to destination. We miss all of them when we are obsessed with the destination. 

Abhilash
www.hindu-blog.com