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Never Tie Our Destiny to a Person

Some of us are so attached to certain people in our lives that we cannot even imagine them walking away from the relationship. We should never tie our destiny to a person. Such attachments make us weak and mentally sick.

Dependence on people is fine but overdependence is a problem. You need to know where to draw the line of dependence.

There is no growth when we are dependent on another person. All our progress depends on the other person. This is not at all good.

Emotional dependence on another is another big issue. This often results in a permanent mental scar.

Always have a healthy relationship in which there is no attachment and dependence. Everything should be mutual.

When someone wants to walk out of a relationship, let them go. There is no point in holding on to such a person. We just need to suffer once. Holding and keeping them will be a constant pain in life.

Do not see them as villains. It is just that they want to have a different life. Their role in your life is over. Both have to move forward. Do not get stuck in life when a person abandons you. Keep moving ahead.

Never give your finances and money to someone you love. Your money, property and your wealth should be in your control. You can share them but never give complete control to another person. You never know when people change. So never let anyone take advantage of your finance in the name of love. Be what you are in a relationship – do not be submissive. Do not get overwhelmed by people and relationships. Stand firmly rooted.