Sharing and serving would enhance our ability to love, our ability to accept…and if you have that as a goal, and both move in this direction, together, I tell you, there will be no problem.
When there is a common interest, a common goal, a common path, to move on, that nourishes the relationship, rather than focusing on the relationship all the time.
Love is essential in relationships, not mere attraction. In attraction, there is aggressiveness. In love, there is submission. This is the difference between love and attraction. Though attraction does form the first step, you cannot stand on the first step for too long. You have to move on to the next pedestal. That is love.
If the relationship comes from the space of giving, rather than need, it is a good quality relationship.