It does not matter how you live – you can lead a normal life; it is not necessary to consecrate your whole life to the Divine. But whatever you do, try to remember the divine as much as possible. Your only aim should be to aspire always to God.
People put too much emphasis on realization. In my view it will take lifetimes. Instead, it is better to love and remember the Divine.
Darshan is silence.
If you surrender to Him truly, it will no longer be you who does the work but God who does it through you.
Do the practice for the sake of the Divine, not for the sake of liberation.
The greatest pain is ignorance. When the pain is clear, you can find its source and can change.